Consistent Experiences vs. Varied Experiences

Nathanael Garrett Novosel, November 6 2024

There are two approaches to maximizing your abilities: These differences occur in two ways: you can do the same activity consistently to master it vs. doing it in a different way to be able to perform under a variety of conditions, or you can do one activity to improve in one area or various activities to improve in multiple

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Don’t Stop Believing

Nathanael Garrett Novosel, October 30 2024

You might not be taking a midnight train going anywhere, and you might not be a small-town girl or a city boy, but Journey’s message should still resonate with you: don’t stop believing. Everyone talks about the meaning of life as if it’s some great mystery about what they should be doing with their lives, but in doing so they miss the...

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Having Healthier Desires

Nathanael Garrett Novosel, October 23 2024

One of my favorite quotes of all time is, “You cannot eliminate a habit; you can only replace it.” It’s a great insight around how to change your life, as most people try to quit things cold turkey only to fail when the triggers that cause them to do that habit come around. For example, if you started smoking or drinking during times of stress...

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Pick a Goal and Go!

Nathanael Garrett Novosel, October 16 2024

Two of the biggest issues in life are figuring out what you want to do and then building the motivation and discipline to do it. The first is well-known in psychology as “paralysis by analysis” (or, more colloquially, analysis paralysis). Life goals are the ultimate option-heavy decision because there are an infinite number of ways to live your...

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Instinct vs. Optimal Behavior – A Struggle for the Best Life Possible

Nathanael Garrett Novosel, October 9 2024

Every organism is biologically wired to behave in ways that have a good probability of survival. Whether by design (i.e., a higher power) or simple, random chance (i.e., “the ones that were not wired that way are dead”), organisms have certain instinctual behaviors that they perform to survive, grow, and reproduce. From beavers building dams to...

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Your Very Complex Relationship with the Truth

Nathanael Garrett Novosel, October 2 2024

Truth is a strange thing. How do you know something is true? Clearly, most people would say that they can prove it. But then they also believe in things like God that they can’t prove, so it can’t be just that. Truth, interestingly enough, is gaining two entirely separate definitions: the truth (i.e., what is objectively correct) and your truth...

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The Evolution of Beliefs: From Superstitions to Luxury Beliefs

Nathanael Garrett Novosel, September 25 2024

Beliefs are an interesting double-edged sword: they can be beneficial or harmful, depending on the relationship between your beliefs, reality, and your desired outcome. The interesting part about beliefs is that they are complex parts of our psyche and have monumental impacts on our lives. While there is a lot to be said about the topic of...

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Drama

Nathanael Garrett Novosel, September 18 2024

Drama is an interesting (pun intended) concept: the idea of eventful experiences in life that are worth talking about. “Bob went to the store and bought a gallon of milk,” is not interesting. It’s a statement of fact to convey information. Now, one way to spice it up is through plot: “Bob went to the store and bought a gallon of milk only to find...

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Growth Does Not Equal Effort

Nathanael Garrett Novosel, September 11 2024

Just a quick reminder that growth does not equal effort (or, at least, the feeling of strenuous effort). As The Secret famously said, grass doesn’t strain to grow. Most humans spend their lives eating, drinking, sleeping, and eliminating waste—not much effort at all, and they grow a lot. Even if you exercise heavily, the muscle growth occurs...

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Be True to Yourself, Lie to Yourself…Be Honest to Others, Lie to Others?

Nathanael Garrett Novosel, September 4 2024

There’s an interesting conflict in recommendations from others around honesty: people will tell you to be honest or deceptive depending on what leads to the best outcome. Now, for those of you who have read The Meaning of Life: A guide to finding your life’s purpose or previous blog posts on the honesty ethic, that will not be a surprise since...

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